Living a life of unconditional love and never giving up on other people can be a challenge. When do you draw the line in the sand in the way people treat you and what is acceptable to you when you are committed to loving no matter what and never giving up on anyone. So often we can lose ourselves in this and forget that we need boundaries and know when to let go. It is important to remember that everyone is teaching us something about ourselves and to allow the healing to occur naturally and gracefully.
Boundaries are important in our every day interaction with others as it let's them know how to treat you and is essentail to helping to grow your self worth. If you do not have clear boundaries you will lose yourself and leave youself open to being walked all over and hurt. It is important not to blame others when your boundaries are crossed but to get to know where you may have not communicated clearly in that situation that the other person thought it was ok to cross over into your emotional space.
Sometimes you just have to let go of people who are not good for you or who don't understand your boundaries. You deserve to have people in your life who accept you as you are and respect your boundaries as they want what is best for you and for you to have your needs met. You deserve the best in life and being clear on your needs and boundaries will set you free to attract into your life people who care about your wellbeing and resepct your needs.
Everyone comes across your path for a reason and it is important to see what that reason is. Live and learn and move forward powerfully in life. You are worthy and deserve everything you dream of!
Tuesday 31 January 2012
Wednesday 4 January 2012
Letting go
When you know what you want in life, it is so important to let go of the attachment to it and allow it to come to you naturally and gracefully. You do not need to chase after what you want or hunt it down. All you need to do is know what you want, what you love and where you are going and take one step at a time toward your outcomes.
So often in life we can chase dreams and aspirations and forget about the journey and the gifts that are available in each moment. When you push for things to happen, you push them away. When you allow things to unfold, you gracefully walk in the direction of your heart's desires and things will be attracted to you.
The art of allowing is about being authentically you and letting go of the past that may be holding you back. It is focusing on what you want while multi-tasking to get to the place you are meant to be. When you are inspired and loving what you are doing, you will most likely not be attached to it and things will unfold toward your ultimate dreams.
So go forth and be clear on what you want, then let go of your attachment to it and allow what is destined to be attracted to you come to you with grace. If you find yourself attached, know that it is perfect and everything happens for a reason. Consider if it is working for you then make the adjustments in your life to suit your authentic self and ultimate path.
So often in life we can chase dreams and aspirations and forget about the journey and the gifts that are available in each moment. When you push for things to happen, you push them away. When you allow things to unfold, you gracefully walk in the direction of your heart's desires and things will be attracted to you.
The art of allowing is about being authentically you and letting go of the past that may be holding you back. It is focusing on what you want while multi-tasking to get to the place you are meant to be. When you are inspired and loving what you are doing, you will most likely not be attached to it and things will unfold toward your ultimate dreams.
So go forth and be clear on what you want, then let go of your attachment to it and allow what is destined to be attracted to you come to you with grace. If you find yourself attached, know that it is perfect and everything happens for a reason. Consider if it is working for you then make the adjustments in your life to suit your authentic self and ultimate path.
Love to focus...
In life we can scatter our thoughts, therefore never attracting the things we really want because we are not focused on what we want. Feminine by nature is not focused but it is possible to balance the feminine with the masculine focus and create the results you want in your life. In the 21st century, it is impossible to survive if you do not have some form of focus and goals while being committed to an outcome.
Do you know what you want in life? So often we do not know what we want therefore we do not have anything to focus on and this shows up as a lack of results. Who is the authentic you? What do you truly want? If you were to let go of fear and sabotage, what would you truly create in your life?
If you find yourself being afraid to set goals because you may have fallen short before, it is time to let go of that and begin to know what you want and allow it to be attracted to you. When you cut off from the things that were distracting you from your true desires, that is when you will have the time, space and energy to allow into your life what you are wanting the most.
So be clear on your heart's desires, let go of the barriers and go out and create what you truly deserve!
Do you know what you want in life? So often we do not know what we want therefore we do not have anything to focus on and this shows up as a lack of results. Who is the authentic you? What do you truly want? If you were to let go of fear and sabotage, what would you truly create in your life?
If you find yourself being afraid to set goals because you may have fallen short before, it is time to let go of that and begin to know what you want and allow it to be attracted to you. When you cut off from the things that were distracting you from your true desires, that is when you will have the time, space and energy to allow into your life what you are wanting the most.
So be clear on your heart's desires, let go of the barriers and go out and create what you truly deserve!
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